A while back my boyfriend was upset that I didn't have a job, but I did and up getting one. At first he was upset, and mad I wasn't applying everywhere. Such as a store that is 9 miles away. The location for traffics can be a nightmare plus I didn't have a car yet so I would have depend on others for rides. I did not feel it was good for me to apply there

Now he wants me to quit my job now, and take a child care job(nany) because it pays slightly better (just a few dollars) And it has set hours, and weekends off.

He says where I am at now they are always cutting my hours, but when they do they always call to ask if I can come in, or someone ask if I can take their shift. He gets upset when I do that however because he says that is our time together. Perfect example I was out with him the other day, and my boss called and ask in I can come in, and I told her yes but I am out at home. I have to home and change, and maybe eat since I haven't ate yet. She said that time see you soon (i was 30-40 mins away)

My boyfriend said no! He's not taking me, and I should of talked to him first... I was with him since 9 am..and it was already about 2.

He said his time. And not to do that without talking to him first. He also said it was ignorant of me to do. (he drove)

Why am I wrong not to take the nany job? Or trying to pick up hours when he has of?

He just bitched about My hours getting cut! I honestly thought it be okay to go into work. Its extra money.

(i didn't want to take the nany job because I have go drive the kid to certain places, and my friend my job now looks better on a job application, and I am building up my ss, and I'm less likely to owe during tax time)