My husband and I have been married for soon to be 2 years in September. While my birthday and anniversary are in the same month, last year was weird. My husband was acting distant and indifferent, I thought it had to do with my long hours of working to save for our house. Well it wasn't, my birthday passed and our anniversary did as well, things felt odd. We went out and he was sitting far from me checking out girls and just being disrespectful to me. Then weeks later, he fell asleep drunk, while his phone was going off ringing and ringing. I tried to wake him up, thinking it was his work calling him into the office! But, it wasn't. It was text messages from another woman! I woke him up and asked him about the messages, then asked to read the rest of them since his phone was locked!! He got upset (which I know the signs of manipulation and guilt) he admitted he was speaking with her. I got upset and asked that he leave. Long story short, we are trying to work things out. But I am angry and want to do the same to him now!! Almost a year later, he is going to therapy and trying. Not sure if I want to stay?!? We just bought our new home.... confused! Some thoughts please