So i just started my maternity leave this week & every single chance he gets he reminds me of how im not working anymore. I have over $2000 saved for this event that i will be out of work ... I am still expecting one more paycheck. And today i mentioned how i want to go to carters to spend my $20 in rewards & he starts saying you spend so much money every time you go in there. Remember your out of work so why do you want to go spend money. And it really offended me because im always the one who buys the clothes for the kids and spends my own money on them& he just went last week and spent over $100 on new clothes for himself. I BUY MYSELF NOTHING. i have barely any clothes that fit but i always am sure my kids have what they need... And he is just making me feel like im being irresponsible wanting to spend money and im not working. That makes me feel so unappreciated in every way of me being a mother .. He just made me feel so sad 😪