This is super long sorry. 

Well back in January I just decided I have to tell them and I did. They were shockingly very supportive and never really said much. I'm sure they were a bit upset and disappointed but maybe just didn't tell me. Although my mom did ask me to keep it quiet cause she doesn't want people to talk. I did keep it quiet until I found out I was having a little girl and at 27 weeks I posted to social media. Very few people actually realized it was my baby cause I had been so quiet about it. Well last week I posted a maternity bump pic in the park at 32 weeks to my Facebook. 

A girl I was friends with since grade 3 currently also lives in another country very close to where I am. Her family has always been very odd and her parents are older than mine and they just love to gossip and be racist. For this reason I warned my mom if this girls mom asks her anything just to tell her it's really non of her business. Well today I received a fb message from the girl saying she sees I'm pregnant. And asking who the dad is. I told my mom and sure enough she told me that the girls mom had texted her. But here comes the upsetting part. Her text to my mom read something like this:

"Xxx told me that Your daughter posted on Facebook about being 32 weeks pregnant. We are truly sorry to hear this and for your sake we hope this news is not true."

I was so offended and upset by this I was crying. How dare this woman say something like that to my mother. When I told my mom how angry I was she said I was overreacting and taking it the wrong way and the woman was probably just shocked because I'm not married. Then she told me that she herself was in a shock for about 2 weeks after I told her cause it isn't really that great that I'm not married and having a baby. 

I told my mom I'm gonna delete that girl from my Facebook and she told me I'm being silly. I'm sorry but these people are notorious for being gossipy and judgemental. And quiet frankly if her mother feels so deeply sorry for my parents about having a granddaughter (the first grandchild) then they don't deserve to see any updates about me or my child. I'm very private even on social media that's why a lot of people didn't realize it was my baby's ultrasound pic even. I don't post every single detail of my life online but I'm also not gonna be ashamed to post a photo of my baby bump. I'm not ashamed of my unborn child and anyone who is can fuck right off. 😡😡😡

Rant over.