So my brother came home from the army and is staying home for a wee while and he has made a mess and iv tried to keep the house tidy and wash pots and do his washing to be nice and it'd hard to keep the house clean while I live alone and I don't tend to use much so there not much to clean but now he's home and using pots and washing his kit there's cloths and pots everywhere and my dad comes home and I instantly get the blame for not keeping the house clean!! Yesterday alone I washed two loads of pots washed my brothers cloths so I could use the washing machine to which he stuck another load in before I got my stuff in ... and then I emptied the big bin in the kitchen and couldn't find bin bags so I left it till I could go to the shop and get some and I come down and he's put stuff in the bin ...like sereously common sense would be lovely and when I ask him to empty the cat liter he takes two hours to do it!! Like II actually can't go near that and my dad comes home and my brother has used the last of the wash stuff and there's a few empty bottles in the bathroom and my dad goes zoe you have to keep everything clean and apparently the house being somewhat messy is MY fault?!?!!! Like what the actual fuck I'm 30+4 pregnant and it's hard to do stuff as my bump is huge and athsma is bad and I get told it's all my fault for the house being messy ...... I'm sorry I struggle to pick stuff up and just because I'm lying on my bed doesn't mean I haven't done anything all day I'm having a rest for God sake I'm so upset and angry my dad actually gives me anxiety attacks because I always feel what I do isn't good enough when I'm really trying and I need help