Nervous about telling family

I'm 9 weeks and I've told my parents, but not the rest of my family. I plan to tell everyone once I have my first ultrasound in 2 weeks. Most of my familys not on facebook so I need a way of telling them! For my cousins I was just gonna tell them over text and for the older family members I was thinking of mailing out a pregnancy announcement. I'm really having a hard time deciding what to say exactly. My family is really judgemental. I need a way of announcing the pregnancy that shows Im happy and they dont need to feel sorry for me, if that makes sense.