So my boyfriend and I got in a fight today and I am still upset. I just got our baby to sleep and he gets off at 11pm... will I be a terrible person if I go ahead to bed so I don't have to talk to him when he gets home!?

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Never go to bed angry.

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Sometimes when we are arguing I just need to be mad at him for a night and go to bed   nothing wrong with it

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Don't go to bed angry. Not goood for relationship

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There is nothing wrong with going to bed mad. I've done it, even with him laying next to me and just turning my back on him (Ill secretly miss him very very much by doing that) and by the next day we are talking it out.

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Never go to bed angry doesn't mean you need to resolve it but don't be angry when you go to sleep

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Thank y'all. I just I really don't know what to do anymore. I'm not as angry at him as I am just hurt in general and really just don't know what to say to him.... but I also know if I do talk to him tonight I'll let things go and he will keep doing the same crap.

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The saying is, never go to bed angry. However it's not healthy to hash to it when you are not in a place where you can talk about what's going on in a healthy, open conversation.

If you are not ready to talk about the problem it's okay.  Sometimes when one is tired its more likely to say something that is hurtful, rather than productive, and that could create a bigger problem then there already is . Therefore,  if you feel as though you aren't ready to talk about it, let him know and express that you would like to talk about it in the morning giving you both time to think and rest before solving the problem. Communication is key.

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I've heard the saying never go to bed angry but honestly I don't buy it. Get some sleep sweetie. Honestly I find things easier to talk about once I'm rested and have a clear head instead of thinking out of frustration. Hope all works out!

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Go to bed so you can get the sleep you need but leave him a heartfelt note letting him know that even if things aren't resolved, you still love him and wrote down some sweet things that you know will make him rest easy- even if your argument isn't totally resolved.

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I dont believe in that "never go to bed angry" shit... go to bed and take a breather.. talk in the morning or when you guys are home from work

So my boyfriend and I got in a fight today and I am still upset. I just got our baby to sleep and he gets off at 11pm... will I be a terrible person if I go ahead to bed so I don't have to talk to him when he gets home!?

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