I hate this

I hate it that I have my boyfriend right next to me yet he won't touch me sexually, when I want to have sex he falls asleep early but other times he up past midnight playing video games! 😡😡 yes we have talked about it he did gain more weight and is unhealthy which is why he says his "sex dirge has gone low" but why must I suffer. Besides that he does love me and he's great but not his dick!!!😡😠😤😤