am I having a orgasm?

Question

So I'm 20 and new to sex. I'm about 6 months in. During sex, I have this build of tension and a release, but it's not like, mind blowing . Oral though, there's no doubt of my orgasm there.

I'm discouraged because when I started to do some research on the Internet all I heard was people say "if you have to ask than you're not having an orgasm." And then some statistics about how a lot of women don't orgasm. But there's definitely something there. Am I having an orgasm? And if so how do I make it better? I'm really worried that I'm one of those girls who find more pleasure in masturbation rather than sex. I feel disappointed and dissapointing.

Answer

I was wondering the same thing before. I read somewhere that it could be a vaginal orgasm. They're rare but possible and they involve the whole body instead of just one area like clitoral orgasms. They're less intense so sometimes people might not think of them as an orgasm.

Answer

You're not the only one!! I find more pleasure in masterbation then I do with sex. It's the only way I can orgasm but sometimes I orgasm once in a blue moon with my fiancé. Not that sec is bad, I just can't orgasm!

am I having a orgasm?

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