So lately it seems like a lot of people around my husband & I are getting pregnant. Normally, I'd be happy for someone, but it always seems to be the girls that have multiple partners with no plans of staying with that person long term, girls that aren't able to support the child (the grandparents taking care of the child), or people that are on drugs, hurting the unborn child. I have a really hard time seeing it on social media because my husband & I have been trying and we are well & able to support a child in a great environment unlike these people and it just hasn't happened yet.