Am I over reacting
Lately my bf has been blocking me out of his mind. No matter how nice, mean, high, or low i talk he never responds, never awknowleges the fact that I'm talking too him. Most times I'm constantly repeating myself till he finally responds which is more than 3 times. Other times I'll say something once look right at him and still nothing. I'm only 2 feet away from him. So I'll just sit there looking stupid talking to a fucken wall. It's been about a good 3 months since he's been doing that maybe longer I don't know. I know he's a good listener bc he's a manager. I just feel disrespected now when he does that. Like hello!!! I'm talking to u not casper not myself.! So after holding in my feelings from all of these months I told him
"It really hurts my feelings that I'm talking to u and u don't even try to awknowlege it. Not a nod, not a smirk/smile, not even an okay or a yes or no. All I hear are crickets in the background and I'm sitting/standing there waiting waiting and waiting. It's been daily where it's more than 3 times that I'm repeating what I'm saying and still nothing. Once I raise my voice that's when u want to respond but then throw it at me like I'm attacking u when I'm not. It's like come on I'm no more than 5 feet away how the hell can u not hear me or awknowlege that I'm talking to u. U make me feel invisible now. I answer u every time u say something even when it's a pointless conversation/question. It's the fact that I'm giving u respect with that attention not making u feel like u have too run 5 miles and back to get a voice out of me. I get there's times ur not in the right mind there's times u don't feel like urself but everyday though? Every time I say/ask something? It's annoying now. Makes me feel like it's only me that's listening to myself answering myself. I get if u can't hear me yeah I'll repeat myself. But when ur shoulder too shoulder with me there's really no reason why u couldn't hear me. And that's what crosses my line NOW when i have to repeat myself more than 3 times to a man that has his ear 2inches away from my mouth. I'm not making it into something so big, but I would like too share my feelings with you and see where this can go. At least I can say I talked you about this before"
And all he says is "that's petty shit for you too say"
Now I'm upset. And he's telling me I'm upset over what over bullshit.
Am I overreacting ladies ? I let it go already but still.
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