Wow is my initial reaction. There is never a perfect time to bring a child into the world. Children change things in relationships, but they are a blessing. If you wait for the perfect time, you'll never have a child. Even when you feel prepared, you're not. If I was you, I'd re-evaluate the situation and find a way to make it work - additional jobs, state assistance, church assistance, local nonprofits, family, friends, and anything else or one you can think of. It's not an easy decision at all. It is somethinrg that you'll have to live with everyday and something that could change the course of your relationship and future fertility. Think about it long and hard. If you have any doubts, which it's obvious you do, don't do it. 

I got pregnant right after graduating high school and intended to abort my pregnancy. I walked out of that appt and decided to keep my baby!I just watched her graduate from college!Please, *If you are so inclined... Message me and I will lovingly give you as close to a million reasons to keep your baby as I can!

I don't mean to be rude, but why were you trying to have a baby if you knew it wasn't a good time?

I just read your status on your page...enough said.

Instead of terminating your pregnancy, put your baby up for adoption.  This world is full of people that want to be a mom or a dad and can't have children of their own. 

Was this your fiancé's decision ? The way you have written this makes me feel like it is not your decision.. Well It is YOUR decision, no one else's. Do not do anything you don't want to do. You can absolutely make it work. You can and will find a way if you want to. This is something that you will regret for the rest of your life if it is not what you want. Please think long and hard about this! Push the date back if you need to! 

The crying and anxiety are physical manifestations of your subconcious telling you that you don't want to go through with the abortion. A child is always a gift no matter what. It might be difficult to bring your baby into this world being in the situation you are in but I promise you it will all work out. 

I'm pro choice but it doesn't sound like you really want an abortion. I don't think you should get an abortion if you want this baby. I know there is a lot to figure out, but if you want to make it work, you can. You have 9 months to figure everything out. I don't think anyone should be pressured into getting an abortion if they don't want one. Have you thought about seeing a therapist to try to help you figure some things out?

I'm not sure what I can offer but it sounds like this is not what you want. I was terrified when I find out I was pregnant with my first because I was just finishing high school and couldn't afford to raise a child. I'm glad I chose to figure out another way and I wont say it was easy but he is 9 now and I don't regret my decision. I strongly believe that things can work out just not always as you plan.

If you already feel like this, please don't do it. Yes, babies are expensive, but with a little creativity you can make it work. Or, consider adoption. I'm super pro choice, but in the case where you're literally not able to cope with your choice it's because it's probably the wrong choice for you. Whatever you do, I wish you all the best.