Why are husbands like having another child?

Let me start with my husband is a tremendous help. BUT I'm starting to feel like Im raising two boys not just my son. My husband works nights and I work days. By the time I come home I give my son dinner, spend some time with him then get him ready for bed then put him to sleep. I'm almost 28 weeks pregnant and when I get home I just want to eat relax while the baby sleeps then sleep myself. My house is a disaster serious its a mess. Which upsets me because my husband is home all day. He can not multitask to save his life. So I try to understand but I'm tired. I cleaned my bathroom and kitchen and now they are a disgusting mess. So I told my husband before he went away for the weekend to visit family in NYC to please clean the kitchen properly and I'll clean the living and dining room. Well I come home to a cute note on our white board on the fridge saying hell miss us and loves us but my kitchen was absolutely disgusting. He hadn't cleaned anything not only that there was no milk for the baby and my husband didn't let me know. UGH. I left to my mothers so I could get help for the weekend and left the kitchen as is. I refuse to clean it I truly do. I cleaned what I said I would so at this point the bathroom and kitchen are the only things the need to be cleaned. I will not touch it at all I'm so over it. I just wish my husband multitasked better. He's such a great dad and so hands on with our son. But I do worry about the decline in my house upkeep since I started going back to work back in Oct. Now that I'm due in August I'll be home for a few months before going back to work and I know I can manage my household but I need my husband to maintain it once I start working again. 2 kids , a dog and us can make this apt quite a mess and I need him to stay on top of these things. Idk how to tell him this without making him feel like I'm saying he isn't doing enough or nagging.