kids? yay or nay?

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Is there anyone who isn't sure or more towards not having children? Or someone who was thinking this but later changed their minds?
Don't get me wrong, it's not because I hate the idea of children. But right now this world isn't a place I would want to bring them into, and the idea of having someone that could totally break my heart if anything happened to them and have control over that is completely terrifying.
Also there are some children I see with their parents who are complete little assholes and it really makes not want to have them, but I would be absolutely certain they would be disciplined AF.
Just curious on everyone's opinions on motherhood!

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I never wanted to children,  couldn't stand the thought of kids,  still struggle with other people's kids.... But I have two, I love them too much, they are my world.  I would like more, haven't decided yet.  
Kids feel your heart with a love you've never experienced, it's a feeling of being home.  When I'm not with my children I feel lost.

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I always wanted them, I'm not sure now. I wouldn't be upset if I never have them.

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I don't want children. That's just a no to me. I can't stand them, I struggle with keeping calm when I need to watch a friend's kid even for a few minutes. They drive me nuts.  Getting pregnant would be the worst nightmare to me apart from being homeless lol. Just no 😣

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I don't want kids. I am not maternal in the slightest. Pregnancy creeps me out. The world is a shit place and seems to be only getting shitter so I don't want to bring another person into it who then has to deal with all this crap.

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Always said I wasn't going to have kids, my husband wore me down and here I am with my first ... Now I want 2 more.
I love being a mom, it's definitely not for everyone though.

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In that phase of my life, Im meh about children. I love pregnancy, I love the magic behind the female reproductive system, and the magic behind birthing a lil human, and I love infants - but I really dont see the fuss about having children. Not for me, at least for now.

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I said no way in high school and then after college I was on the fence but about 2 or 3 years ago I suddenly wanted kids of my own. I'm not sure what changed my mind as I've never been the type of person to love babies or kids (not that I hated them I was just tolerant of them).

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i want kids. i am preg with twins. there def not for everyone

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I'm 19 and I know I don't want kids at all at this point in my life. I can't say for sure that I don't want children, so I'm more on the fence than absolute childfree. I enjoy being childfree right now, and I think I will for the next few years. Anytime someone asks (which is not as often as I thought it would be xD), I always tell them to just ask me when I'm 25 😂. My fiancé has said he wants kids, but he wants to be childfree at this point in his life also, as he's just about to be 21 and gaming is his life at the moment 😂. I'm not entirely opposed to children, but I'm awkward and don't really know how to interact with any under probably about 10 or so. I'm not even sure how to hold a baby 😂 I don't know what baby fever feels like and while I can care for a toddler, I'm not sure I have maternal instincts right now lol.

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Not quite the same situation for us but we had tried for four years to have children, had multiple miscarriages, and surgeries etc. And hubby and i talked and said that we were done and going to actively prevent.  Discussed just have lots of fur babies and going on vacations because neither of us wanted to keep trying.  We were at a place we were both okay with not having children.  I of course a week after this conversation found out I was pregnant again 😂

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