My boyfriend and I have an extremely instense sexual relationship. Our sexual attraction to each other has always been strong, even when we were best friends and totally platonic. Now that we are romantically involved, we have sex multiple times a day, most days. We are both super open-minded and pretty damn kinky... 😅 We are both masochists and have tried many, many things. Even so, we are getting into a sexual routine and it's getting more difficult for each of us to orgasm. He takes longer and for the first time ever with him, I didn't orgasm every time we had sex this week. I get really close, but can't! We have been having sex mostly in bed because we both live with our parents for a few more months. Also, the dirty talk is getting less and less and we are doing all the same positions... Any suggestions??? He wants to try anal and I am totally down, but I'm nervous. It's obviously not the cleanest place on a person, that makes me feel embarrassed...