Husbands partner number?

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K I already I'm gonna get shit for this because I know how women are on here. For the record, I'll already admit it. I am a very jealous and insecure woman. I'm not afraid to admit it and my husband also knows this and knew before marrying me which is why I guess he lied. Well I just found out that he's slept with more then he admitted before marriage. We've been married since 2015 and now have a daughter. I'm not exactly mad at him per se but it's fucking eating me alive that he's even slept with other people. I just want to know how to get over that pit in my belly when I think about it. Any suggestions? It's so annoying and it physically hurts my heart to think about it. Is that even normal?

@wegucci Yes I do suffer from anxiety but do not take medication for it.

Once again I do know it has no relevance to our relationship and of course it's stupid to even get upset about but I'm just wanting to know how to get over it. Some of these comments have definitely helped and I'm starting to feel a bit better. The number has not gone up since we've been together or married, I just hate feeling sad over his past lovers. It honestly pisses me off that it bothers me. Just trying to find ways to cope!

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Just try and remember that he chose YOU for a reason. He can't un-sleep with them and as long he's not sleeping with anyone else now you have nothing to worry about. Just remember that he is with you now for a reason

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It was in the past.. nothing you can do. My husband doesnt even know his number 🤦🏻‍♀️

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My husband doesn't know my number and I don't know his. Totally useless information. What matters is that we are committed and we're STD free when we started having sex

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it is the past

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Do you suffer from anxiety?

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That was hard for me too.

My husband doesn't know how many he slept with, mostly because he was a frat boy and had drunken one night stands with random girls.  He was also almost engaged before we met but... She died so there's no issue there.  
I, on the other hand had never even had a boyfriend before meeting him and was still a virgin on our wedding night.

So, I had to realize that he is a different person now, even when we started dating he told me he would never talk about past girlfriends, he's only mentioned two that I remember. He never looks at other women now and is the most loving man.

But it still bothers me occasionally.

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I'm glad my fella has been with other people, that means he got lots of practice and now has mad bedroom skills! Lucky me haha.

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I would be annoyed as far as the lying.. but as for his number.. life didnt start w u.. hes had a lice prior and u knew he wasnt a virgin. I dont honestly see the relevance to your guys' relationship. As long as his number hasnt went up during the relationship,i dont see the issue

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