In October last year, I was pregnant and he agreed then he would take photos, but he had a few stipulations.  I lost the baby in December. I am pregnant again, now 5 months and I mentioned photos yesterday. He completely shut down the idea of him being in any photos. I am not sure if he was in a bad mood and maybe he will change his mind, but my heart was crushed. I was lying on his lap. I showed him an idea I had for the photos and he responded, I'm not taking any photos. I was showing him the idea because I had already purchased the shirts. 😔 I never wanted to take photos alone, but I do want the memories. I'm torn.