Don't know what to do😞

so back story. i have been with my husband for almost 3 years since we were 17. i am now almost 20 & he's almost 21. i've had problems with his family when i found out after a year & a half of dating that they didn't like me & were going around telling all my husbands, then boyfriends family how "horrible" i was & making up all these lies. so while my then fiancé was at his military schooling, his family moved from oregon where we all lived, to texas. i really didn't want to move to texas because of knowning what his family thought of me but my then fiancé told me we wouldn't have to live with them we would live with his friend until we could get off on our feet. as much as i didn't want to leave my family, i decided to go so we could finally live together. well after about a month of living with his friend, things didn't end up working out so we had no choice to move with his family... & we had to spend all of our money that we were saving up, to move to his parents house. so there went our savings. so fast forward to now, we are married & i am 20 weeks pregnant with our little girl. we are still living with his parents because things didn't work out how we thought they would. i always hear them saying shit about me, which my husband has addressed multiple times. they say they are sorry & they love & accept me but then go back to talking shit about me. i have been so unhappy.. i have no friends here so i go to work, come home & sit in our room for the rest of the night. i have been so depressed. my family knows what is going on & how they are treating me & my mom offered for us to move back to oregon & live with her until we get off on our feet or how ever long we need since she needs help with rent anyways. i was so happy to hear that offer, but of course my husband wasn't. he keeps making all these excuses on why we can't go. that we are so close to moving out of his parents house & we will be away from them. but that's not the only problem.. i need my family. i'm still so young & now that i'm pregnant i can't even share that experience with my family. also since he is a reservist, he says he doesn't want to move bases & have to make new friends. but i feel like all i have done is sacrifice for him & he's not willing to do the same .. he sees how unhappy i am but that still doesn't change how he feels on us moving back. ive been so depressed that i'm kinda getting to the point to saying just fuck it & letting him stay in texas like he wants so bad & me & the baby just living in oregon. but i love him so much & i don't want to throw this marriage away. i want us to be a family. but i am just so unhappy.. i've been choosing his happiness over mine for so long, i feel like i've lost myself. is it time to put myself first? or should i just stick it out for my family? sorry it's so long😞