brother in law called be fat!!

My brother in law called me fat yesterday and some other Spanish works i can't translate and his mom as well.long story short I was defending my hubby from his siblings cuz they kept talking crap about him so this lady was being so nosy wanting to know what was happening and I told respectfully I wasn't going to tell her then she went to post a bunch of stuff on social media so I told her with all respect don't insult if you don't know what's going on. Then she proceeded to tell me a bunch of crap then her son too.anyways with somebody who deals with anxiety and depression and low self esteem (I know everything) those words kill you and with anxiety you can't stop thinking about it..if you deal with anxiety you know what it feels..I just wanted to rant sorry it wa so long