Should i stay?

Question

ok so i got married late 2015 to a guy i had been with for 7 years. literally straight after we got married i found out he had been texting another woman and asking for naked pictures . He said he was stupid and it would never happen again. Then i find out this year hes been flirting with a girl in his office and he told me he kissed her at a work night out. His behaviour has totally changed. Hes so disrespectful and always comments about how I've put wait on. I've put 12lbs on since our wedding which i am in the process of loosing.
My mom is seriously ill with ALS and my dad is struggling to look after her. I can't go home and stress them out even more and the house is adapted now for her needs. 
I found out last week he was still in touch with the 1st girl, he's beeb calling 8 timea a day  Again he said there is nothing in it and he really wants to make our marriage work. 
I feel totally lost. I moved to a friends house for a couple of days to scare him but i just dont trust him anymore.  I feel stuck and dont know what to now.

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Id leave i mean you gave him his chance and he did the same shit. You really dont know if hes cheated yet or not. Youve been together a while so why is he doing that. And he should never talk about your weight even if you ask that should be the only lie he tells. You should tell him that the 12lbs you put on looks alot better than the dishonesty hes gained.

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Leave him. Go spend as much time with your mom as you can while you can. I'm sure she'd love to see your face everyday. Don't stress them out, just respect yourself and tell him to suck it. . Oh and take as much money as you can with you when you go. Savings. Get your names off the bills. Cancel the cable if it's in your name then make the jerking off motion at him as you walk out the door while giving him the middle finger with your other hand. He won't change.

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Why is he calling some other chick 8 times a day if he's married to you? That alone seems really fishy. I wouldn't believe anything he says. It seems like he's got one foot out the door and is just waiting for someone to come along so he can jump ship. Don't put up with that!

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I think it would take some serious marriage counseling to make this work. And I'm not sure even that would be enough to save it. I don't know how you could ever trust him again.

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I'm sorry this is happening to you. I think you made your choice and just having second thoughts and it's totally normal because you're afraid of change. You need to consider your own happiness first and if he is disrespectful towards you, he doesn't deserve you. You gave him a chance and he didn't appreciate it. In my opinion it's best for you to leave him and try to find happiness again, don't be afraid and never apologize if it didn't work out between the two of you because I'm more than sure that you tried your best and this doesn't mean you don't love him but you love yourself more. But it's always your choice I'm just giving you an advice and hope whatever you choose it's the best decision you'll make.

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he is a liar obviously. get marital counseling. if that fails move back home until u get back on ur feet

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That sucks! If it were me, I would have a very hard time trusting him again even if he showed me he was trying to change, which it honestly doesn't sound like your hubby is. I would not be happy in a relationship like that and I would hope my family and friends would tell me to leave, so that's what I would suggest to you.

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