Stressed and confused wife

Okay lady's I need some help

Saturday I was out with my soon to be mother - in-law and I started getting sick I could not keep anything down so the took me to the hospital and turns out I have a really really bad uti pluse kidney stones, goll stones.

MY QUESTION IS......

all my old man wants to do is jerk off ever seems last Saturday I'm always in bed when he goes to bed but we would rather weed wack inside of me what can I do to make it to where he doesn't weed wack anymore

HELP

Stressed and confused wife..