Not trying to be rude or rustle any jimmies, just legitimately curious.

What is the point of the agender identity?

As II understand it, it's that you don't identify with either male or female, so you sorta fluctuate between the two?

What II don't understand is this.

In what way do you not identify?

Perhaps you don't fit into the cookie cutter for your gender, but the cookie cutter for the opposite sex doesn't appeal either?

Why does that need a special category? Of course you don't fit, because they're irrational and idiotic. Just because the stereotypes don't suit you, doesn't mean that you're not that gender or this gender.

You can be more "masculine" one day, and feel more "feminine" the day after. That's normal. Some days II wanna weld and be the big spoon and kiss boys, some days II wanna weld and be the little spoon and kiss girls.

II just don't see the point of slapping a label on being and behaving like a human being.

So, let me hear your thoughts. Agree? Disagree? Tell me why.