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Is it wrong that I would like to know how it is sexually and relationship style? I'm 28 and I've been with just my husband for over 13 yrs and he was my first for everything I've never been with another man but lately I've been thinking about of about it on how would sex and how would I be treated. In just so confused. 
Our relationship is far from perfect for where it was 3 yrs ago he's changed a lot we don't have sex really at all maybe 2-3 times a month, he never wants to do anything I want to do, it's his way or no way, he doesn't want to let with the kids when he's home and he's home 3-4 days a week. We have tried going and talking to someone he didn't like it he thinks no one needs to know our business.

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I am polyamours so I see who I like.  Most of the time it's a huge disappointment. Haha

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I actually wondered this about my bf. I have had multiple sex partners b4 him so I know what it's like. I'm the only person my bf has slept with. He is 25 going to be 26. I asked him if he ever thought about wanting to see what else is out there and see what it was like being with other women. I was surprised that he told me no the idea has never crossed his mind. And that he was perfectly fine with only being with me the rest of his life he doesn't need to see how it was with other women.

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I actually was just having this convo with a friend of mine... her husband is her one and only. She says she fantasizes about other men, and that okay. Lol. I however, didn't settle down as quickly, nor did I wait. So I have been with about 15 different men in my 32 years. She was asking me if it was terrible that she thinks about it... and kicking herself for being so uptight in high school/ college. I will tell you what I told her... it's better that you didn't try to make yourself experience things before you felt comfortable and ready... that would of have been worse and wouldn't be experiences you'd want to have or remember. Next part... you are only thinking about it because you don't know what you aren't missing out on. Seriously, you aren't missing anything. The best sex is with a person who has your heart and when it comes to sex you kinda get out what you put in. Sometimes there are people who are actually just terrible. I've never had fantastic sex with someone I didn't have feelings for. But you can always do things to add a little heat and lust spark into your relationship.

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Are you lacking anything in your relationship right now?  I have been with mine for 10 years , h.s sweethearts and I get this thought sometimes (used to) but things are better in my relationship and realized that w.e I'm getting at home is better than having sex with a stranger that doesn't know my body.

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There's that grass is always greener on the other side syndrome. If your husband is a good man and loves you then if you did make a decision to be with other guys you might find it disappointing.

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