Would you?

Question

If your SO or someone you're dating ignores you for no reason for more than a week (maybe they just needed time to themselves but they didn't say anything about it) , would you pick up when they decide to call or text back when they decide to text?

Or would you give them a dose of their own medicine?

Answer

Giving someone the silent treatment and ignoring them (even if it is for a very valid reason) is just juvenile and immature. A grown up talks about their issues and has decent respect for another human being. I'd just walk away from someone who did that to me. I'm an adult and I'm only going to have a relationships with another adult.

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I'd consider that a breakup and move on.

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I wouldn't ignore him. I don't have the time or patience for those kinds of games anymore. Instead, I would explicitly tell him how wrong and unhealthy and unfair it is to me to just ghost on me with no word, and then come back expecting me to act like nothing happened (yeah right 🙄). Then I'd let him know he can lose my number and stop talking to me for good. ✋️ I don't want to date someone who is still mentally a teenager and doesn't communicate, but still expects me to sit around waiting for him. What a turnoff. 
This is essentially what I did the last time someone ignored me. I let him know he was a coward and that he could lose my number (he did, thank goodness). Why play his game when you can move on to bigger and better things?

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I would be straight up with him, "you can't just ignore me and then act like nothing happened, bye 👋 "

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I wouldn't pick up.

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