SO is such a D*ck

My SO has been fired 3 times in less than a Year. Why? Attendance issues. He's just plain Lazy and gets too confident that he is one of the best workers (which he is) but his attendance is what gets him fired. I would stress so much everytime he has gotten fired. The 1st time, I got depressed and stopped eating. I lost so much weight. And returned to work 2 months earlier than I shouldve after my leave because I was worrying about money too much. Well after the 2nd time, I got a better job and was able to have a good chunk of money saved up incase money becomes an issue. And what do you know. My so Lost his job the day after Mother's Day. And hasn't shown interest in getting a job. But he has applied. But he doesn't seem to worry that he hasn't been contacted. I took him to a Temp and All I heard was Complaining on how "This is because you want me to do this" like why can't he just WANT to help me out ?! Well I got a friend of mine to hire him as a Roofer. And guess what, my SO gets cold feet. He couldn't sleep and I asked what's wrong? And he complains that he has to get up in 3hrs. And I told him "Well, we have to get some income somehow and this will help." And then he goes and starts saying It's MY fault he has to get up at 6am! Like SERIOUSLY. Ungrateful! I dont get a "oh good babe! So I can help you out now" instead I get a "I'm being forced to do this because this is what kind of man you want to be " which he is meaning a Working Man. And I asked him "Dont you want to help pay the bils?" And he says "I don't want to pay anyone's bills!" Mind you, he has NEVER payed any of MY bills since we have been together. And I tell him "You don't pay anyone's bills but your Own and its actually ME who pays your bills. Which I care about you so I help but you don't worry about the fact that your woman is the breadmaker in the household" 

I eventually started crying (this is eventually outside some steps) and I tel him I don't feel appreciated. My SO keeps saying "are we done with this?" Meaning me giving him a talk about how I feel and everything. He says he's tired of hearing it. And so he tells me to go inside and I say No Im going to cry here on the steps. And he tells me "can't you cry inside? Or In your car? I was here first and I'm trying to smoke a cigarette " this asshole saw me as a burden, crying in his "smoking spot" and had me go cry in my car.... Im so hurt. Like why can't he see that he should be helping me take care of US.  And not just have me take care of Us.. he is such a dick...