Did I do the wrong thing?

Question

Tonight my sister was getting baptized. 
Tonight I also told the guy I'm dating that I would go to his sports game. I usually go every weekend, except for this past month I've only been going on Friday. 
The baptism was going long so I left before I saw her. 
I ended up going to his house to leave for the game. I changed and everything. But then I felt like I needed to see my sister. He was understanding and told me I could have just canclled but I was afraid he would be mad. 
I ended up changing again and going back to see my sister.
My thought process was that if this doesn't work out and I went with him I would regret missing it. And if it did work out I would know that he is understanding a good man. 
But for some reason I feel guilty for missing it. Like he'll be mad at me or something. Did I do the wrong thing?

Answer

Family before anybody. You should of canceled and been by your sisters side in full support.

Answer

No family first. If he cares he'll understand.

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Yes, I do feel like I should say, I was previously in an abusive relationship where I was not allowed to put others first. Sometimes I get confused on what is normal and what is not but he helps me figure it out. I am glad I got to still see her and be there for her!

Answer

Your sister will always be your sister, and she will only be baptized once. You almost missed that for a game that you go to all of the time for a dude who could leave you tomorrow. Stop worrying about if he will be mad at you. If he would get mad because of  you going to your sister's baptism, he isn't worth it. He sounds understanding though.

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I say when you are dating someone and something major with a sibling come up, that bf or gf should be understanding. Anyone who isn't willing to allow you to be there for your siblings isn't worth your time. Especially when you go to all of his events. So, he showed a positive side to himself by allowing you see your sister without stress from him being selfish.

Answer

You should have rescheduled with him, sister should come first. And if he's the kinda guy who could possibly get upset over that is he really worth it??

Did I do the wrong thing?

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