Can i have peoples experiences with the stitch please? I lost my little boy after giving birth at 24 weeks from cervical incompetence.... this time il be having a stitch... i was first told they will monitor me with regular scans and give me the stitch when they feel i need it but my doctor and midwife thinks it makes more sense to have the preventative stitch at 12 to 14 weeks (and so do i) i see my consultant next week to discuss what will happen and im going to try to get him to agree... do people think this is the best option? And can i have stories of people who have had both please... thankyou very much