Relationship

Tia • 20 years old in a new relationship.
So I recently started dating a guy after almost 3 years of a toxic relationship. My EX had cheated numerous times & I had been wanting to leave him since November 2016. In January we left our home of almost 2 years for him to leave town & me go back to my mom's. At the same time we were together but eventually he broke up with me & found someone that "lived in the same world" as him. I still contacted him while he mentally abused me & disrespected my whole existence in front of the new girl he's been with. But while he was alone he was manipulating me to see him or that he'd come see me & make up for all the mind games. Now that I have closure of why he did it all, I made myself available to other guys & starting dating this guy as of this month. My EX still calls & text me & I feed into it. We are on good terms & he's aware of my boyfriend but he still thinks there's a chance & I really don't believe there is. We told each other we were going to remain friends but others don't think so. My boyfriend & I spend everyday together & we've said we love each other. I really do feel like he's a good guy. Just need some feedback ladies. 🤷🏾‍♀️😬👍🏾