Am I a bad person?

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I'm struggling to make ends meet, and some guy offered to pay me $2500 up front in cash if I have sex with him.... but not just any sex but full on rough bdsm sex. Am I a bad person? I need the money but I don't know if this makes me a bad person for doing this once.

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That is really dangerous and you shouldn't do it. Engaging in that kind of activity requires a huge amount of trust and negotiation, and you can't buy your life back. If it isn't someone you don't know all that well... that's up to you, but insist on a contract and safe words and let someone trustworthy know exactly where you are. If he doesn't agree, run.

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I don't think there's anything wrong with it. You do what you have to do. But be extremely cautious and safe. I agree with letting someone know where you are, how long you plan to be there, etc. and make sure someone has his name. And I'm sure this goes without saying, wear protection!

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Personally, I don't think there's anything wrong working in the sex business. It gets the bills paid. But please be careful, make sure everyone is safe, ask to see some kind of contract or something. It sounds a little shady.

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Long as youre safe and careful and tell a trusted friend the name and address of person youll be seeing then go for it. $2500 is a lot and hell if i was single id probably do it too

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I didn't end up going through with it... the more I thought about it the more I became uneasy with the whole situation/idea. I think the offer of money clouded my better judgement.

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You might even want to let the guy know that you've told someone where you are. But honestly: This doesn't sound safe at all. Once you are tied up you're out of control. He could give you drops and bring you somewhere else. The longer I think about it.. don't do it.

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No it doesn't make you a bad person for having tempting thoughts. But don't do it because you may feel bad afterwards and you're worth so much more than money can buy. I know the struggle all too well but I don't want to risk my self worth for it. I hope everything works out!💜

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I don't see anything wrong with it.. just be safe and let a friend know where you are.

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It doesn't make you a bad person, but please be careful. I don't know how well you know this guy. Just be safe

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You two need to sit down and discuss limits and safe words before you agree to this. Tell someone where you'll be and when you'll be home. You need to really be able to trust someone to stop if you safe word. The sex for money element is one thing, that's a lot of money. Giving a stranger the ability to tie you up and literally do what they want with you would be too risky for me. Even if the two of you sat down and drew limits I don't know if I could trust him to honor it. Be careful with this 😏

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