So my boyfriend and I have an 11 month old whose not the best sleeper so it makes sexy time a little rough.. my boyfriend always just wants to jump into it and hurry up since he wants it done before our son wakes to nurse again. But he skips foreplay 😩 it kills me! I tell him we can't do that because I am not turned on what so ever, he literally tries to just shove it in me when I'm not wet at all sorry tmi. But it freaking hurts! I've mentioned it but he just tells me to calm down, wtf. Help please. He thinks rubbing it against my butt cheeks does anything for me