am I wrong?

So my boyfriends mom keeps asking him if I'm going down with him for the family reunion in April 2018. My son is suppose to be born in August and everytime they talk she insults me in every way possible saying how I'm not allowed in her house so I better stay in a hote if I go down to st Thomas. That I better not go down there cause she'll make sure the girls down there "tear" me up. That I better not come down there cause his family will say this and that. Insults me about my nose saying I have a stupid Jewish nose, I'm red skinned and have stupid curly long hair. Basically putting me down without even knowing me just seeing pictures. Won't even want to get to know me. Then says my sons gonna end up looking like her and I'm gonna hate him and that she's gonna make sure of it when he goes down there. I guess she doesn't understand my son will not be going down there without me when he's a newborn or if she's gonna do anything to talk bad about me or my physical appearance to my son.