can you believe this!?

Every holiday my boyfriends seems to find better things to do then hanging out with me. I went to my families for a cookout and he was suppose to be there by 1:30. It's 2:45 and he calls asking if he should still come and if he can bring his friends cause they have plans together later and I tell him no. Of course I'm pissed at this point, and he tells me I'm being a bitch?  Any advice!!