i'm stuck in a hard spot!
my boyfriend and i are expecting, i'm 7 months pregnant w our baby boy, a first child for both of us. i've always told him before i even got pregnant that i wanted to have the same last name as our baby and him, like a family. we are in the process of buying a house, also. he bought an engagement ring 6 months ago and it sits in his glove box in his jeep... i know it's there. and he knows that i know he purchased it.
everytime i jokingly say "oh i wish you'd propose" or "pop the question" or i'll make statements like "when we get married.." he is just not interested in what i'm saying, he says "oh yeah so things can get worse than they already are" because we don't have a perfect relationship much like everyone else we have arguments and disagreements. but we are having a baby and i know i want to spend my life with him. i always talked about having a big wedding when we first got together and he expressed to me he doesn't want that, so compromised and said we could have a small wedding if he wanted when we decided to get married.. i make so many compromises for him :(
is it wrong of me to want to express my feelings about us buying a house and having a baby but he doesn't want to get married? half of me doesn't even want to continue our relationship if he doesn't want to get married.. i've been waiting on him to propose FOREVER. and it doesn't make an sense to buy a ring and then not even want to get married! i'm frustrated.
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