Adoption selfish?

My SO keeps commenting how he is scared and too nervous for this baby. He has been GREAT support through rough patches. But I also can't help but feel this is not the right time any more. We haven't even been together as a couple for a year (we met two years ago), and enjoy just being him and i. I'm also only 20 and have so many things to yet experience.

Is it selfish of us to give up the baby for our own personal desires? I don't want us to end up resenting keeping it and end up giving him a single parent family, feel he deserves better.

I'm also 36w, and the pressure has been hard with time running out, the feeling keeps getting worst.

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