my partner and I have been together almost 7 years and have a 5 year old daughter...

we are planning on getting married next year...and almost everyone we know is saying 'you need to have another baby'

our daughter has recently been diagnosed with moderate hearing loss with the possibility of losing her hearing fully...

apparently we are selfish for not giving her a sibling...yet I feel we need to do best by her and focus on her needs ...

anyone else feel people need to just butt out and allow you to live happily??

here is a recent family pic attached xx