What do i do

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My husband hit me today. We've gotten into heated arguments but never has he ever hit me before. I'm 7 months pregnant and I literally depend on him for everything. Through this whole pregnancy he's been so helpful and there for me and some words were exchanged that were not taken in the way intended. Weve been together for 7 years. I don't know what to do. I honestly can't be around him but I have no where else to go and no one else to turn to. He's also saying he's going to kill himself and I'm kinda thinking he could actually do it.

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I'm sorry this is happening to you. The most important thing to keep in mind is that this is NOT your fault.
Second, you need to create space between you & him in order to cool down. Do you have family in the area you can go to? Enough money to rent a hotel for a night? Are you close with his parents? I'm sure if you explained the situation to his mother, she's be more than sympathetic (and more than upset with her son.)
You said you depend on your husband for everything. It's not uncommon for abusers to isolate their victims financially as well as emotionally and physically. It's also common for abusers to only show their true colors when their victim gets pregnant, because then it is easier to gaslight them and blame "pregnancy hormones," therefore making you look crazy.
Please do your best to reach out and try to get away, at least temporarily. Do not stand for this kind of behavior - don't give him the power he's looking for by doing this. You are stronger than he is and you can get through this ❤️

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You can always go to a woman's shelter. They can help you if you don't have anyone else (they'll even help you if you do have friends/family that could help you). Abuse doesn't get better- probably about 99% of the time abuse just gets worse. Some people change, but I wouldn't count on that at all. He's proven himself to be physically abusive, not only to you a grown woman, but also to a child that isnt even born yet. If he could risk hurting his unborn child I hate to imagine what he'd do when your child acts up (like all kids do). He's abusive. 
Emotional abuse is also a thing- and a common emotionally abusive tactic is to threaten suicide when you threaten to leave them. It keeps you around. Its disgusting. He might not be trying to do this so if you're concerned call the police when you leave. I'd leave when he's not home. I'd pack whatever I could and go to a shelter. I would not leave any information about where I'm going, etc. I'd just go. Once I was safe I would call the police and let them know I was worried about my abusive husband potentially committing suicide when he discovers that I've left. The shelter may also be able to help as well. Also remember that you are not responsible for his actions. If he kills himself that is on him- it will never be your fault. Not ever.

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Call the cops if you're worried about his safety. You can't have a man hitting you, let alone you 7 months pregnant.

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Leave him. The threat to kill himself is another way to manipulate you.

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Firstly he has absolutely no right to lay a hand on you! Secondly I would say the threats are empty, he knows he's done wrong and he's trying to manipulate you. I think you need to decide whether to go to the police or not...I also think you need to find yourself somewhere safe to stay for a little while while you work out what you want to do.

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You have somewhere to go, there has to be friends you've made, family, cops!!!
Choose any of the 3 and never look back! 
You're 7 months pregnant! 
Do you know how serious this is? 
Your baby is almost here! 
Do you not care about the safety of your child? 
Not trying to be too harsh on you but C'monnnnn!!!!!!

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Not trying to be a bitch but by putting this on here its pretty much stating you don't want to be with him. They have homeless shelters, familys always an option, sounds like you want him to leave.

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