Is it wrong if me?

Question

So my last post was about me having to beg my husband for sex.we are suppose to be ttc but how are you suppose to when you don't have sex? I asked today if we could have sex and he told me yes and then a little while later he told me no. I got upset and mad and then I told him I was done begging and I was done trying to have a baby is that wrong of me?

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I think the pressure is probably getting to him. I hate the thought of 'arranging' sex! Just put some sexy underwear on and go seduce him on the sofa or something. If he still isn't up for it then maybe he just doesnt actually want a child

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I had a similar problem. Men don't work well under pressure. Don't ask- put on a sexy outfit and make some moves. Works every timw

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He's probably a little nervous about TTC. When my husband and I were trying it suddenly felt like a chore to him and he didn't want to have sex, I felt like I had to beg him too. Try to focus on other things as well and make him feel like more then just a sperm factory  (that's what my hubby felt he was at one point lol).

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I recommend trying to initiate sex, before you go asking or begging for sex. "Wanna have sex? Can we have sex? Please! Have sex with me!" That's kinda boring. I mean, doesn't that sound just a little mundane? Ever heard of, "show, don't tell." Same applies for sex! Have you tried just showing him you want sex? Like, flirting, touching, teasing, nibbling on his ear, kissing, role play, or massaging, lingerie, oral and fourplay? Whatever you do, don't ask or beg for sex! If you attempt to initiate sex and he turns you down, ask him why? Otherwise, if you start to initiate sex and he's down, go with the flow. Also, another word of advice, when you're ttc, don't make the act of having sex, or making love, all about trying to have a baby. Many couples who are ttc, lose sight of one another and sex becomes a chore for them. Don't squeeze the fun out of it. Don't bring up ttc before, during, or after! Make it about wanting your husband, enjoying his company, pleasing one another, two of you connecting emotionally and physically. It's worth a try IMO. I hope this works for you, and I wish you the best of luck sweetie.

Is it wrong if me?

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