So I was talking to my 65 year old grandmother who is overweight (she isn't fat but she does nothing to help herself even though she has type 2 diabetes) but she is big herself. I pulled down my shorts to make sure my ass wasn't hanging out and she snaps and me and says 'quit playing with your crotch' so I said, 'I'm not I'm just pulling them down' and she straight up looked at my and said, 'well you're way too chubby to be wearing those shorts.' I love my mom body and I carried my beautiful baby boy so I've extremely proud and I overcame a lot of self esteem issues because of my other aunt and grandmother mooing at me and making fat jokes. I'm only 165 pounds dude. My mom told me to forget about it and she got irritated when I didn't want to let it go. Like am I wrong?!?!

(Its 103 degrees outside so I'm a little sweaty but I took the picture to show that I'm not very big)