Appreciated

Do you ever notice you do the most for the people who don't appreciate it? I do a lot for my mother, we live together. I clean the living room and kitchen every week. I cook sometimes, i'll do dishes. I help with laundry. I help with grocery shopping and put the bags in the car and in the house. And unload the bags. I do her favors. Yet, i never hear a thank you. She still treats me like shit, and bitches at me. Meanwhile, there really isn't much I've done in my relationship of 2 and a half years. But when i do, i can tell he loves me and appreciates it. And he always expects me to appreciate him for what he does and give a thank you. It sucks growing up not being appreciated, because if you're not appreciated you can't exactly show appreciation.