Are you scared of labour..?

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I'm 22 weeks and have started thinking about labour. As a first time mum, I'm really worried I won't be able to handle it, I don't have a high pain threshold. I also really don't want any drugs if I can help it. Is anyone else worried, or have had a baby and have words of advice? Xx

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I was terrified but you got no reason to be. Your body knows what to do

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I'm more nervous than scared really. I want things to go well during labor and I want my baby to be healthy and strong. I don't worry about pain because I know that I will make it through whatever comes my way (i.e. the pain is temporary, there's always pain management available if absolutely necessary, it's worth it or women wouldn't continue to have children after the first, etc). I just worry about potential complications.

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At the end of the day, I just keep reminding myself that cave women had babies and did just fine. You'll be able to handle anything that comes your way momma. It's the nature of the female body. Try to Embrace that fact; it'll make the rest of your pregnancy a lot easier. 💕

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Nope. I've practiced being at peace with the idea of the pain since ttc. I'm sure my body will know what to do, and I don't project any fear into the idea of giving birth, because I find it unhelpful. I'm going to try hypnobirthing, and a walking epidural is my backup plan. I'm not saying it won't hurt- I know it will, just saying I won't be putting any time into fearing the moment. I only think about the baby, and the beauty of childbirth- instead of the pain and fear. I don't listen to what people have to say about the horror stories. I just trust myself and trust my body. I used to have fear before ttc, but the moment I realized there's no turning back now I let it all go- it's the best thing I've done my whole pregnancy.

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Yes ..only because I constantly keep seeing articles about things going terrible wrong and it has me a basket case.

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It's going to hurt more than you think most likely. Sorry, but I'm going to be honest with you about it. Keep an open mind to pain management.

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Every labour is different. Every woman is different. Ive had 4 kids.

1st baby 17 hrs labour had epidural that failed for some reason they dont work for me, pethidine shot dont recommend and gas which is amazing. I had a cut and tear and it was frightening but i wa only 16.

2nd baby i went to hospital with mild period pain lkke that time of the month... was examined and told 9cm dilated i was shocked! Had no gas at all and didnt tear or be cut. Was a very cruisey labour actually only 3 hours

3rd baby was induced overdue 3 hour labour was intense because of pitocin. Baby was 10lb 7oz so obviously most painful delivery. Didnt tear tho hahaha

4th baby flew out. 9lb 12oz her dad missed it all. No time for drugs 45min labour

Theyre all different. I found the more relaxed i was the easier it was. Its also good to practice medititatiom and breathing exercises for labour. The best pain relief i found was a hot shower on my back and sucking that gas machine thing lol

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Ive had one baby and pregnant again. Its good to have a birth plan but just go with whatever you want at the time. I cant comment on natural labour as mine was induced, it was painful and intense and non stop but its suprisingly ok at the same time. Have something to focus on while your contracting but dont watch the clock haha. Honestly you will be fine. I cant wait to experience it all again!

Are you scared of labour..?

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