My husband hung out with his friends last night,before he left, he said he would be home by 11 and said that he wasn't going to be drinking, well..needless to say, he got home at 1:30am,and was drunk. He drove home drunk. We've had arguments in the past concerning him and his drinking, and the friends he hangs out with,but it's like he doesn't care what I say. He has this friend that he's been close to since they were little and this friend has a wife and a 13 month old baby,but they just moved and the baby apparently doesn't even live in the same house as them bc they r renovating, so his friend and his wife are staying in the home while their child lives with a family member...and I don't approve of this friend bc to me, he's not a good example on my husband, he also smokes weed and where I live, it's illegal. So if the cops were to find out and my husband was over there when they got busted, he would go to jail with his friend,and be away from his unborn daughter and me. He gets so offended when I try to talk to him about his friend, like I'm insulting his mom.? I don't get it. I don't wanna keep him from having friends, but the only time they hangout is to drink. I don't like them smoking weed or the fact that he lies to me when he's with him, or the way him and his wife are "parents". I don't know how to solve this with my husband and work around it. All day today, he's ignored me like I'm invisible. And he told me last night after I told him I couldn't put up with this anymore that he had other places he could go and that I treated him like shit, yet last week he was bragging about how good I am to him..