Smoking weed

Okay so I'm a total stoner and weed helps me get threw a lot and plus I like it to pass time. I find it way better to get high and enjoy nature then just sit in a room all day and play video games like my boyfriend. But if I even wanna smoke he gives me shit for it. I have a job and he doesn't. I work my ass off and I don't even spend money on my weed except here and there. When ever I try to stand up for myself he makes me feel like shit for wantin to smoke every day if that. I have depression and anxiety and he knows that. It helps with a lot and he compares it to heroine or meth. It's not even close and he knows that cuz he smokes one in a while to. He's a social smoker. We've been together three months and I love him. Plz I need advice. And I'm 20 btw not a child.