Boyfriends mom

So I don't like my boyfriends mother plain and simple. I have my reasons for not liking her after what her children have told me and what I've seen for myself. I am going to have my baby soon since I am due September. Last night I brought up to my bf about how I don't want anyone coming to the hospital. He agreed and said "I don't want anyone coming fr either." So I told him okay well relay that message to your mom and family and thats when he got an attitude talking about why u always gotta do my mom like that blah blah. I was like idc I don't want people there i'm going to be spending time with my baby and trying to feed and stuff. Then we argued about it some more he said that my dad came to see me when I had our first child its not just about u. I said yes thats my dad he came to see ME and cameron! So then he said was he there before u had cameron or after and I told him after because he had to work and I didn't want him there in the first place watching me give birth. (He always try to justify why he is right) but hes not. So I was like whatever and walked away, thought about it, and came back and was like if your mother just has to come to the hospital then only she can come and she can come the next day after the baby is born... like I really don't understand why the hell she cant just come to our house and visit him when he is home since we like right across the damn street from each other which was a bad decision 😒but anyways she is not watching me have labor and I don't want people rushing in crowding and ruining my time with my baby after he is born. Rant over lol im 32 weeks and in my feels but seriously my bf isnt the one who had labor and could be in pain so idc who he wants there. And I know some people do like all their family around when they give birth and crap and thats cool but thats not me and it would be different if I actually liked the person lol. I had my first child in PA where my family lives and I loved that because nobody came to visit and I stayed there like a month or 2 after cameron was born. But now im back here at home so everybody has access to come visit. But they don't come over here anyways they always want me to come across the street to they house just so I can say "hey" and be quiet the rest of the time. And i'm not bring my brand new baby across the street they better carry they ass over here if they wanna see him!