Can you be too sensitive

I'm so sensitive in so many places (sides, back of my neck, under my arms) that I try to get away every time they're touched. As you can imagine my clit is the most sensitive and I immediately recoil from my boyfriend if he tries to touch me there. It isn't exactly what I'd call amazing and great when he does because my body is just like DEAR GOD GET AWAY ASAP the same way you would if you were electrocuted. Granted he's the only one I've ever gone this far with so I thought hey maybe I'm just not used to it. It's been two years. I'd like to take pleasure in these things by now...