Lose vagina?

Question

So me and my husband had sex last night, I had my son about 5 weeks ago, after we had sex he goes well that felt different, and I asked how?  And he says it's hard to explain.... then rapidly say "not saying you got lose" 
THE FUCK DOES THAT MEAN .... 
I am so pissed and hurt. ... 
 
I dont want to even talk to him or see him ... 
and he keeps asking what's wrong ? And I just want to say ( did your dick shrink?) but I won't ...

Answer

It might have felt different because of the amount of time since you last had sex. And his quick response, seems like he didn't want you to think that's what he meant ( because he probably didn't. ) he probably just felt like that's what you were thinking (since you just had a baby)

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He said that it wasn't because you're lose.... So why are you assuming that that's what he meant? 
Since I've had my daughter 3.5 years ago, sex is different for us too... in a good way! I had multiple rips, so because of the stitches I seem to be even more tighter these days than before. 
Your hormones are still leveling out, so I say just breathe and maybe try talking to him about it later.

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I don't want to be shamed because I sometimes watch kuwtk BUT Scott did say that after Kourtney had their son it was like walking into the same house but all the furniture was moved around.

Not the house was bigger.

It was just different.
My ex told me in no uncertain terms that it almost felt like I got tighter (I didn't tear either) BUT I was fatter and watching his daughter come out of me ruined my V for him  🙄

What I'm trying to say is guys aren't equipped with the same underhanded social skills meant to break you down mentally that women generally are. . . If he felt you were loose he probably would've said it outright.

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He literally told you you're not loose, why are you pissed? He said you feel different,  and since you just shoved a human out of your vag,  I would have to say it's a safe bet. Relax with him.

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It felt different for both of us at first. Your body is still healing and going back to normal, even if you arent having pain. Give it time.

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If he said it's not because your vagina is loose WHY ARE YOU MAD?!? Your getting mad at something he DID NOT say! FFS

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