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My fiancé and I have been talking about starting a family for some time now. After having HELLP syndrome on my last pregnancy (surrogacy pregnancy) I was told to wait a year before trying again as I had a csection. Well my one year is on Thursday.  Last night, my fiancé have the go ahead that if we wanted to try, she was ready too. So I'm extremely excited. BUT because I thought she would want to wait a bit still, I sat down and wrote down dates and prices of a cruise to surprise her with.  That's where I run into the hard part now... I know I'm ready to start a family. I know she is. But I also want to take her on this cruise.  So I'm conflicted if I want to start our family or not!  But to go on this cruise, it will be between $3-5k and that will take a bit to save up (not really cause I work two jobs) but I know I don't want to be pregnant on the cruise either cause then we can't do the excursions. Help! Opinions?!

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I think you should go on the cruise. If u plan your cruise around the same time as insemination, you should be fine to do excursions because it's so early. Enjoy! Do both

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look for deals on cruises. We found a good deal with Norwegian, and it didn't cost that much plus we got free drink or food package. I say go for both!

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Do both! Schedule out everything.. Perhaps you can do the cruise on the two week wait !

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You still need time for each other. If you’re not ready then she should hopefully respect that.

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take the opportunity now if she's good with it. 2 under 2 on a cruise sounds less than relaxing.  try for baby after.  what's a couple months?

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