Boyfriend is pretty much perfect but..
Hello beautiful ladies!
I just wanted to rant a little.. Maybe some of you guys have experience and insight for this! My boyfriend is SO wonderful, so amazing, he's pretty much perfect (in my eyes) but he just doesn't GET PMS. He doesn't get it!! On good days he tries to be understanding, and I'm silently applauding him for his valiant efforts in my head. Other times, he's just like pissed off at me because he doesn't get why I'm pissed off/cranky in the first place... And then sometimes we end up fighting about it, which obviously makes it so much worse. Think: supercharged cranky pmsy woman
I'm not using PMS as an excuse to be cranky or pissy, but those of you who get PMS BADLY, know how hard it is to keep our moods in check all the time! It's exhausting!
Does your SO understand it when you're down? How did you get him to understand?? (Not saying I understand it myself, but we've definitely talked about this.)
Edit: I'm 26, he's also 26, we have amazing chemistry and super into each other 1.5 years
Edit: There's no yelling but he's taking my depression and moodiness personally and it's making my mood worse. Then we end up upset with each other somewhere along the line because by then I'm *really* depressed that he's so upset too... Honestly, I would rather that he just ignored me when I'm being moody than to take it personally, sigh
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