First Time with Boyfriend

Hey! So I'm 16, and so is my boyfriend of just over a year. We've both decided that we may be ready to take the next step for us.

What contraception would be useful? I can get the pill from my doctor for both menstrual and sexual purposes. Would this be recommended at all? And from experience if anyone could tell me the effects of the pill and whether the side effects are worth it? I will definitely invest in getting some condoms - or get my boyfriend to get them instead.

We will also both go in for an STD test in a clinic, is that recommended? We would be each other's firsts so that was one thing I was unsure about whether it's required...?

Also would like to ask in a n informed way but would like others experiences/opinions etc. I have a few questions:

- What things go through your mind when you feel truly ready?

- How do you know the right time?

- How do you make sure it's right time?

- Where is the best place to find yourself in this situation?

- And lastly what do you do once you're in the situation. How do you keep him comfortable?

Thanks so much ladies!

I just hope I'm sounding mature enough for this situation. I've definitely thought it through and for me I'm not looking at this as another "teenage hookup". I'm willing to make this relationship last, I hope that comes across with the way I'm putting this forward to you ladies!

Again, thank you 😊 x