Ladies... don't be afraid to make a move first

If I learned anything from relationships, dates, etc. it's not to be scared to make a move. Of course coming from someone who was reallyyy shy, I was always terrified to go in for the first kiss even when I really wanted to. Then I would lay in bed and think "damn why didn't I just go for it?" Maybe it would have changed things for the greater good. Growing up, my mother and grandmother told me the boy should always go in for the kiss, ask to go on a date, and no intimacy (kissing mostly) on the first date. They said I would look easy, which I didn't understand because I always believed if you are feeling someone, tell him how you feel. The worst he could say is no.

But I felt their advice never worked because relationships weren't being taken to the next level. Plus my lack of confidence and shyness always got in the way. When me and my bf started talking, my shyness showed alittle but I felt more comfortable talking to him than past guys. I really wanted to get to know him and I thought what the hell.. let me go with my gut feeling. I got up enough courage to ask him out for a lunch date. He said he'd love to🙈 I was quite surprised. We met outside the restaurant and greeted each other with a hug. We had great conversation and talked about everything. Apart of me just wanted to leap over the table and kiss those big juicy lips of his🙈 I wanted to kiss him but I feared that I was rushing.

After our date, we walked to my car. We continued talking and laughing as the snow slowly fell. I gave him a last hug and then he said "wait... I know you probably don't want to and I don't wanna rush, but can I kiss you?" Smiling I whispered yes🙈 he moved the hair out of my face.. and slowly put his lips on mine. I really felt like I was in a movie. Nine months later, I'm so happy I took those chances. I'm happy I asked him out to lunch, I'm happy I kissed him, I'm happy that I am with I'm the most amazing man ever 😘😘 just remember ladies, the man doesn't always have to make the first move and always take a chance