In-laws are a nightmare

This is my second child, 3rd pregnancy. But it is the first child with my fiance. My LO is 6.

All my pregnancies have been troublesome, heavy illness, depression, bleeding and high fatigue. I have the lucky bonus of several chronic illnesses.

We're having a small holiday at the in-laws house because they won't have us at a B&B to see the area. I've been having a lot of muscular-skeletal issues and have been with early pregnancy clinic since bleeding and clots at 6 weeks.

Pain was worse and had loss of all symptoms, went for emergency appointment and scan. Doctor tells me to rest and see if that helps the pain. I come back and his dad laughs at me and tells me I'm not really going to lie down and his mum tells me to go for a run.

These people know I've a complicated medical history and that this pregnancy is seen as higher risk.

I never get my child's hopes up when it comes to daily activities. If I'm able to go somewhere I let her know and plan accordingly, if not, lazy cuddle day and magazines and activities. His mum comes in and says for us to go to a place. My daughter overhears and gets super excited.

I went, was in agony, couldn't stop crying and communication between me and him fell apart.

I can't talk to his parents. When I do it seems like they just ignore unless I'm mirroring what they think. They've always been nasty about my chronic illness and now any time my fiance says I'm resting or feeling ill they roll their eyes and get snippy.

They kept trying to bully me into eating things I can't eat. I just can't even with these people. They are so overbearing with an insistance I've never seen the like of.

I have a mix of not wanting to be rude and wanting to save my energy for self-care. I've managed to have zero interactions with them over the past 2 days because I'm fearful of the confrontation